Unlike women, most men don’t sit around thinking about the future or “forever.”
That’s why it’s important to know what inspires a man’s love, affection, and devotion, and what triggers his need to commit to a woman for the rest of his life.
Here are three things a man needs to truly commit to you forever:
1. He needs to know you don’t NEED him.
We all know that when it comes to men, need is the opposite of attraction. Most women pounce on a man trying to convince him that they are a great match, or are distant, cold, or unapproachable.
Men are irresistibly drawn to a woman who knows who she is, knows what she wants, and has no anxiety about whether a man loves her or not, because she already loves herself!
2. He needs to feel a “quiet satisfaction” when he is with you.
When it comes to love, many women want passion and excitement, while men want a sense of CALM. To primarily attract a man, never to settle for anyone else, you must create an overwhelming feeling of “quiet satisfaction” when he is around you.
This is the opposite of what many women do when they make a man “screw up,” start conversations about the direction of the relationship, or give him an ultimatum.
3. He needs to feel like it’s HIS idea to pursue you and commit to you.
Ultimatums almost always drive men away. A man will only truly commit if he feels he made his OWN decision to commit, and if he feels like he had to WIN YOU. Men highly value what they have to work for, just like we do!
It’s not about playing “hard to get” (that will backfire). But once a man makes his own decision to REALLY be with a woman, he will fight for that love and relationship more than anything else in his life.
If you learn to trigger a man’s need to dedicate him to his mind, suddenly this whole game of love, dating, and relationships will change forever. Suddenly the guy who doesn’t want to commit finds himself happily asking YOU for a commitment. You will find yourself being hunted and wanted by REAL men who are ready and willing to give you the incredible love you want and deserve!