Cunnilingus is a deliciously sensual and intimate experience, whether you perform it or receive it. One of the keys to orally pleasing a woman requires that you start slow and gradually increase the intensity. Depending on how aroused she is before she starts, your lover may need at least ten to thirty minutes of cunnilingus to climax. To make sure she doesn’t rush or stop prematurely just as she’s getting hot, she needs to find a position that’s comfortable for her to enjoy prolonged pleasure.
Various positions offer different sensations both physical and emotional. Depending on your body type and relative size, certain positions will be more comfortable for both of you. Also, some oral pleasure positions can be more exciting or relaxing to suit the kind of mood or stimulation you want. Even the orientation of the strokes of the tongue can change and generate new sensations. Different places for oral sex also warrant creative types of positions. Each of the following cunnilingus positions has certain advantages. Try them all again or for the first time.
Reclined and Relaxed: It’s a standard position where she lies on her back (usually on a bed or comfortable chair), but there are a few variations you can try. If you’re lying between her legs, place one or more pillows under her bottom (tilting her pelvis up). This allows you to stimulate around your perineum and vaginal entrance without having to bend your neck uncomfortably. Raising your legs has a similar effect, but can get tiring after a while. If he’s on a couch or chair, place some furniture so he can prop his feet up while you kneel between his legs. Some women prefer to squeeze their legs together as orgasm approaches. For this situation, you can kneel or lie next to her while continuing to stimulate her clitoris.
Squats and Straddle– While you are lying on your back, she can straddle you, either kneeling or crouching. She may need a pillow to support her head to reach a comfortable height and avoid neck strain. She can look back (to your feet) and encourage your pleasure by stimulating you too. Looking forward, she can watch you and enjoy a sense of power play. You will also be able to look up and see her ecstatic expressions. This position also allows you to caress and caress her body with ease. She can arch back or lean forward to modify the angle and area of her stimulation. Squatting can be exhausting, but the muscular tension in her legs can increase her orgasm.
rear happiness: As she kneels and leans forward, you can orally pleasure her from behind, either from above or below. For better access to your clitoris, you may need to kneel near the edge of the bed or sofa while you kneel on the floor. You can also place your legs over the edge of the bed or the armrest. Some pillows under the hips and stomach can also help.
sixty nine: It is a classic position that can be performed with your lover on top or bottom. As a potentially more comfortable alternative, also try lying on your side. Some women enjoy fellatio while receiving oral pleasure. Although it’s fun to try from time to time, it’s not essential to strive for simultaneous orgasms in this way. Allow her lover to fully focus on her orgasm(s) as an individual yet mutually pleasurable experience.
stand and receive: While she is standing up, you can kneel down and give her oral pleasure from the front or from behind. The front position provides relatively good access to her clitoris. Some flexible contortions are required to stimulate other regions. When you are in front, you can look at her while she watches. You can also lie with your head on the edge of a bed or bench while she straddles you in a standing position.
exotic emotion– Some more advanced positions can be achieved by using some creative props. Some of the sex swings available allow you to experiment with some wild, almost weightless positions, even hanging upside down if you wish. There are also custom made benches specially designed to fit different cunnilingus positions. For a less extreme accessory, use lots of plush pillows to prop yourself up in comfortable positions. Cunnilingus while your lover is floating face up in water (pool, hot tub, ocean, etc.) can also be a lot of fun.
When considering different positions for cunnilingus, remember to take the emotional aspects into account. Some women are uncomfortable with their bodies and may want to avoid certain positions that they find unflattering. However, many men and women consider the visual component of cunnilingus to be part of the erotic thrill. Each position adds a new perspective that can be enhanced with lingerie or different types of lighting. Subtle aspects of dominance and submission may also come into play. Whatever your desires, make sure your lover is emotionally and physically comfortable so you can both enjoy this sensual experience.