What does her body tell you about how to have better sex with her?
One of the big surprises that await men when they finally strip their partner is that the bodies of a real woman are nothing like what we expected. Far from the perfect, airbrushed flesh we see in Playboy/porn, a real woman’s body is often presented differently. However, this shouldn’t be a problem. Once you understand this, you can ‘tailor’ sex to her body and make it amazing for both of you.
So… where’s her clit anyway?
By now I’ll assume most of you can find the clitoris (if not, don’t worry, there are websites that can help :-), few of you have probably considered exactly where is. In fact, knowing the exact position of this erogenous zone is very important, as it can make the difference between whether or not you have an orgasm.
As a general rule of thumb, the further the clitoris is from the vaginal opening, the less likely you are to orgasm from penetrative intercourse alone. If the distance is greater than the width of her thumb, she may only be able to orgasm through oral sex or mutual masturbation. If your partner is more than a thumb’s length apart, then foreplay will be that much more important.
Lips and their effect on sex.
While many men ignore her labia, the wings that open for penetration, her size may indicate the best way to have sex with her. Because these areas of flesh pull on the clitoris, the longer they are, the more likely she is to have a sexual orgasm. On the other hand, the labia majora can be pushed into your vagina during penetration, which In fact hurts for her Therefore, it is worth noting the size of these erogenous parts.
The joy of perineum pleasure
Located in the lower part of your body, between the anal opening and the vaginal opening, is the perineum. This is probably the most commonly forgotten erogenous zone that women have. Although women vary greatly in how good perineal stimulation feels, most women love having this area licked or stroked during sexual intercourse. The best part is that it’s easy to experiment with this area during oral sex or mutual masturbation and find out whether or not it turns your partner on.
Knowing Her Body, Her Vagina and Her Erogenous Zones
Each woman’s body is as unique as her personality. This is great for men who are looking to master sex, as getting to know your body can lead to both of you having unique sex that only the two of you can have. The key is to learn exactly what turns her on and not assume anything. You never know when you might discover an erogenous zone that only she has and take your sex life to the next level.