Is my husband cheating on me? I don’t want a cheating husband! Other husbands cheat, but mine doesn’t. If you think that, you are wrong. Did you know that 50 to 70% of men cheat? Cheaters have the upper hand, both trust and suspicion tend to work in their favor. This gives them the upper hand when it comes to getting away with what they are doing. There are many things to keep in mind when asking yourself, “How do I know if my husband is cheating?”
An unfaithful spouse is armed with a bunch of lies that he believes to be the truth. The unfaithful husband believes his lies, this makes it easier for him to tell them. It will even make you tell lies, and you may not even know it.
Think about this, when he tells you to go out with your friends and he will stay home because he is so tired. When your friends ask him where he is, you tell them he didn’t want to come because he’s tired of working a lot of overtime … or not? You covered him and he’s probably with her right now.
So how do I know if my husband is cheating on me? Be on the lookout for some of these common signs of a cheating husband.
1. It tells you not to wait up for him when you always have.
2. You get strange text messages from friends you never realized you had. (in other words, having ‘fake’ names on your phone that are actually his other woman).
3. Claiming that you are stressed out with work problems when asked about your strange behavior.
4. He is encouraging you to have a social life and to go places out of town when it is unusual for him to suggest that.
5. Taking extra shifts at work or working longer hours than usual, or going early.
6. Avoid social events with you.
7. Ignoring you and not listening to what you say anymore.
8. Coming home late from work and always having an excuse ready.
9. Not being able to ejaculate could mean that you have a cheating husband.
10. Be critical and sometimes make fun of you.
11. Sleeping on the couch part of the night.
12. An unfaithful husband takes a shower as soon as he gets home.
13. Make sure you lock your vehicle and always keep the keys in your pocket.
14. Starting arguments for no reason, just so you can run out of the house.
15. An unfaithful husband will spend an inordinate amount of time in front of the computer, especially late at night and early in the morning when you are in bed. He will hurry up and close the windows when he enters the room.
– But how do I know if my husband is cheating on me? You really could be stressed out from work! This is one of the lies that your unfaithful husband will tell you. Let me break it down.
– He has another woman to juggle, this is the stressful thing, he needs to keep this hidden from you and that can be hard work.
– So he tells you he’s working a lot of overtime.
– You are removed from all overtime.
– He’s too tired to make love to you.
– He tells you to go out with your friends on the weekends because he is too tired to go with you.
– You never see your pay stub.
– You can’t prove he’s at work.
– He always returns your calls, because he does not seem to be available to answer when he calls you.
– It gives you money for purchases so that you can leave the house.
– You are not going anywhere in his vehicle, he always suggests taking yours.
– He takes many more showers and always uses cologne that he did not use before.
– He takes offense at everything you say.
– He’s paranoid, he thinks you’re accusing him of everything.
A paranoid example of a cheating husband, you say “honey, did you see the flashlight?” and he will reply “I don’t have it! Why are you accusing me of taking it! I don’t know what you did with it! You always blame me for everything!” Followed by him stomping out of the house, getting into his car and leaving you standing there with a big question mark on your face.
All of these things could be signs of a cheating husband. Remember, a cheater has the upper hand, both trust and suspicion are on his side.