When a relationship ends, it feels like the end of the world. You know, in your heart, that you belong to each other, and you can’t understand why it had to end. Stop trying to figure it out; chances are you never will. When you want to know how to win back your true love, start thinking about this…
Relationships often fall apart. There is no ‘one’ reason for separation, as there is no ‘one’ ideal relationship. Everyone is different, therefore every relationship is different.
If you’re having a hard time coming to terms with the breakup, then think of it this way: everyone needs a break from each other, right? That’s why vacations were ‘invented’. Sometimes the whole family goes together, but often only one person goes. Just to get away, time to themselves. If you can think of your relationship this way, it will be much easier for you.
To get your true love back, you have to be honest, both with yourself and with your ex. If your love is really true, then the two of you will get back together. You can’t rush things.
Don’t try to get your ex to talk if he doesn’t want to. Instead, just say “hi” when you see them. When they can say ‘hello’ to each other without looking at each other, then they know that the angry and hurt feelings have passed, and now they can start talking to him or her.
Now you can “up the ante” so to speak. When you say ‘hello’ next time, ask how they are. Let your ex know that you still care about him. Let them know that he is still there for them, whether they need to talk or just need a friend.
Talk about things going on in town or the weather – talk about what you both like and NEVER try to bring up your past relationship. By talking about things you both enjoy, you’ll discover that you both want to be in each other’s company more and more. Instead of asking your ex out, why not just take a walk in the park, or enjoy a coffee or something together, during the day and in a very public place?
This will keep both of you relaxed: your ex won’t think you’re trying to force you to get back together, and you’ll have a chance to be together. She enjoys every moment the two spend together. The better they feel about each other, the more they will want to be together.
As the saying goes, ‘true love prevails’. This couldn’t be more true, although it may not feel like it right now. When you want to get your true love back, keep this in mind, it really IS true love, you will be together again. Maybe not immediately, but you will. Then they can spend the rest of their lives happily together.