There’s a reason I saved the positions and techniques for the last part of this series…because the things you do in the physical world are not narrowly just as important as everything we’ve discussed so far.
to make a woman consequently orgasm, you MUST make sure you have a good handle on the first three parts of this series. Otherwise, this final segment won’t be as effective as it could be.
Alright here we go.
The biggest challenge I’ve noticed with the men I’ve trained is that they think they have to know every technique and every position that’s available in the sexual world. They think they need to impress the woman with all the good things they know.
And if their knowledge of sexual techniques falls short of their expectations, they blame the size of their pack.
When really… she doesn’t give a damn how many different positions you know. And the size of your pack really doesn’t have as much of an orgasmic impact as you think. (Yes, it CAN help if you’re well endowed. But don’t make the mistake of thinking that’s all you need.)
When it comes to great sex, the most important thing for a woman is her ability to transition smoothly from one event to the next, keep a good pace, build anticipation through foreplay, and last long enough. (All these things are under your control)
The first thing I would like to address is its ability to “last long enough”. Notice how it doesn’t say your ability to last an hour.
It doesn’t have to last an hour. If she’s done her job correctly to master the first 3 parts of this series, and if she’s learned to build anticipation with good foreplay…she can make a woman orgasm in no time. minutes.
No bull.
Women CAN orgasm quickly. It’s just that all the right pieces need to be in place.
One of the biggest pieces in this area is your ability to build anticipation through foreplay. Foreplay doesn’t have to be oral…heck, it doesn’t even have to involve touching at all.
Good foreplay falls into the category of “mental f*cking.” (That’s a technical term, by the way)
Something as simple as a cool breath on her neck can give her goosebumps and make her think of all the bad things you could be doing. And that simple thought is enough to make her juices flow and turn her on to extreme levels.
That may seem like an exaggerated example, but you’d be surprised how many women can experience arousal at that level.
A sensual massage is usually the most universal and effective form of foreplay. It doesn’t have to be long, but if you can work out the kinks in all the right areas… you’ll set up her orgasm.
Some of the best areas to focus on are the neck, shoulders, lower back, buttocks, and thighs. According to my personal experiences and hundreds of testimonials, those are the most common erogenous zones in the female body. The butt and thighs are especially effective because they are very close to the hottest spot on the female body.
The idea is to put her in the state of mind that she is literally waiting for you to start having sex. The more you can build up that anticipation, the easier it will be to make her orgasm.
And once you’ve built up a good amount of anticipation, all you need to do is get into your favorite position (which you would have learned if you’d done Part 2 of this series) and keep up a good pace.
And as for the rhythm…
If you don’t know how to dance, better learn.
There have been several times when I was dancing and a woman came up to me and said something to the effect of, “If you can move like that with your clothes on, I wonder what you can do without them on?”
Women LOVE a man who can dance. Not because they want to ask you to dance all the time, which is possible, but because in a woman’s mind, a good dancer is a good lover…
…because it has rhythm.
So if you don’t know how to dance… learn… immediately.
I can say with great confidence that if you read and understand this article, as well as the previous ones in this series, you will be in a MUCH better position to make your woman orgasm. (no pun intended)